PREGNANCY NOT VIRGINITY
Hmmm. This is a very serious matter.
I made friends with a particular lady during my NCE. She was not married, but as a social and flexible guy, I initiated a conversation with her...she tried convincing me that it is SENSIBLE to be pregnant before wedding IF that is what one's fiance and family insists upon
To this extent I will like to say that there are many things involved before a family will run such a tradition/norm.
1. Unpalatable Past experiences.
Different sad stories abound about many ladies who had lived an ungodly life, done series of abortion and suffered complications which has affected their vital organs e.g Uterus. So to be on a safer side; many people believe it is reasonable to let the lady be pregnant BEFORE WEDDING.
2. Unsaved household.
Like I always say, a family that ask you to be PREGNANT BEFORE WEDDING is not a HOUSEHOLD OF GOD. Yes, the family is not a CHRISTIAN FAMILY! I say that with no apology. The fact that they all go to church doesn't make them BORN AGAIN. Regardless of whatever dream you have about the brother/sister; I advise you reason beyond mere dreams and listen to the voice of the spirit. This also places a question mark on the salvation of your FIANCE/FIANCEE if s/he support such a practice.
3. Fear of witches and wizards.
This is a very funny one. There's no way one will not live in the fear of the devil and enemies when one is UNSAVED. You are not safe if you are not SAVED.
Come to think of it, if witches and wizards are after your life, will they allow you get pregnant at all? If you happen to get pregnant, don't they have evil power to invoke a miscarriage or stillbirth? Won't they end up killing you with the baby? Hmmm.
3. Evil world value system.
Our relationship with Christ forms our value system but when one is not saved, one will join the fashion of the world. Our society is becoming highly sexualised. The way people celebrate "SEX" in this generation is like turning it into a "god" Our generation is morally decayed. Sex before marriage is no longer considered a sin but pleasure. I am very sad to see many lives ruined day by day because of fornication. Yet God still has over 7,000 young people who are standing for Him in godliness and purity.
Now to the heart of the matter.
What is God's take on this practise?
GOD HATES IT. God is not in support of it. How do I mean? God require CHASTITY, SEXUAL PURITY (Virginity) from us. God ordained that SEX SHOULD BE EXCLUSIVELY WITHIN THE BOUNDARY OF MARRIAGE. Hebrews 13:4. "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge"
God wants the best for His children of which you are one. God is not anti-sex but He has set His standards on sexual activities. This practise is anti-God. It is a rebellion against God's order.
The family that require/insists you get pregnant or impregnate their daughter before marriage has skeleton in their cupboard. There are things you are yet to know about their root.
If your intending marital partner has been sexually active before you met and you don't have your peace after you both shared and discuss your past together then the solution is not placing the cart before the horse. I advise both of you to go for tests e.g Scan or fertility tests. If that will give you peace of mind.
Sisters, I am bold to say that if you are born again and people know you for your stand for God and purity; they won't drag you into this mess. Agreeing to pregnancy before wedding means consenting to Sex before marriage.
Why won't they require you get pregnant when they know you have been fornicating with each other for years and you never "mistakenly" conceived? #??#
Are you afraid of witches and wizards? Smiling.
You need to get your Bible and see the real YOU inside of it. If you are born again you have the power over ALL the power of the enemies. "ALL" not "some"
"BEHOLD I GIVE UNTO YOU POWER TO TREAD ON SERPENTS AND SCORPIONS, AND OVER ALL THE POWER OF THE ENEMY: AND NOTHING SHALL BY ANY MEANS HURT YOU" Luke 10:19, and Mark 16:17-18, etc
Greater is He that is in you than He that is in the world!
When God is with you; nobody can be against you!
When the enemies rise up like flood; the Lord will raise a standard against them! Oh my goodness!
Who is powerful enough to contend with our God?
All power in heaven and in earth are in His hands!
He will contend with those who contend with us!
You are strong because He teacheth your hands to war.
God has not given us the spirit of fear but of love and power.
...by this people will know that you have BEEN WITH CHRIST.
Finally, God can give second chance to sinners and do miracles to show His awesomeness even in hopeless situations. He can do wonders beyond medical reports! That I know so well. As long as one repent and God sees ones genuineness He can bring forth fruits from the desert. Be sure of the salvation of your partner and let God handle the rest.
God teaches us VIRGINITY B4 PREGNANCY.
God bless you
Rauf Kazeem Isaac
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